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Community means feeling accepted and supported exactly as you are in a shared space with people you identify with. It means social visibility while negotiating your authentic self in other arenas of your life. Trying to figure out where you fit in with yourself while having a space where others are doing the same, in a space where you can feel held and safe. Community is love when other spaces in the world feel cold.
If you're struggling with your gender and/or sexual identity: Be patient with yourself, be gentle with yourself. Your true self blossoms over time, it’s like peeling an onion: pulling back each layer is tedious but for each layer peeled the truest essence of you emerges.
If you feel like you are unable to be your authentic self right now, at this moment: Keep yourself safe at all times. This time is temporary and it gets better. These circumstances will not always be your reality. Find safe spaces to be in the meantime and create your support network to help you through it.
If you may be experiencing bullying, peer pressure or force because you are queer:Speak up but only if your safety will not be compromised by doing so. Find your allies, seek support, seek help. It will never stop if we stay silent! Try to get out of whatever situation compromises your happiness, NOBODY is worth your happiness.
What STYLE should you buy? What's the difference?
YOU WILL NOT SEE "MEN'S" OR "WOMEN'S" SECTIONS ON OUR WEBSITE. SHOP STYLES - WITH A FLAT FRONT (E.G. OUR BOXER BRIEFS) OR WITH A POUCH SPACE IN FRONT (E.G. OUR TRUNKS) IF YOU WANT EXTRA ROOM.
Please note – our sizes are true to size. The medium will be a true medium and not a smallish-medium, like some companies. The sizes are also true to most average underwear garments, so if you normally buy a large in underwear that is the size you should buy from Play Out underwear.
Our Boxer Brief, Bikini and Thong underwear feature a flat-fronted cut.
Our Pouch Underwear, the Trunk, Pouch Bikini and Pouch Thong, feature a pouch-style front with extra fabric space for equipment and no opening. Please refer to the "More Info" tab on each product to see additional fit notes depending on underwear style.
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