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Community is a place that you can turn to to find like minded individuals that will offer the support you may not find in the broader world. It's a self defined concept and I say that because only we ourselves can define who our community is to each of us.
If you are struggling with your gender and/or sexual identity, find that community and lean on them. Inevitably there will someone in that community that has been where you are and can offer support in some sort of way. You're not alone. Don't isolate yourself. Find your people. They want to help. They're out there!
I can't stress enough how community is key, if you are unable to be your authentic self due to your circumstance. I know expressing your authenticity is a struggle now but don't give up the fight. Why? Because the very traits and characteristics that make you who you are, are very much worth fighting for. Stay in touch with the impermanence of your situation. It will change and it will evolve. Stay true to yourself.
If you are experiencing bullying or peer pressure, I may sound like a broken record, but find your support. Safety comes first. Keep yourself safe but seek out the support you'll need to express your feelings. No one should be subject to this kind of taunting simply because of who they are. Who you are is awesome! Don't lose that. Don't let them take that from you.
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